Saturday, August 31, 2013

London...Here she comes!


Today was a day filled with excitement, fun and sadness all at the same time. Our only daughter was heading to London to complete the first semester of her Junior year in college. She is the glue that holds the boys together and my right arm and we will all miss her dearly. She is about to begin an adventure though that is an experience of a lifetime and I am beyond thrilled that she is able to do this. She was accepted at the school that she applied to in London where she will be enrolled in classes as well as participating in an internship with a PR Firm. She was a bundle of excitement, preparedness and nervousness all rolled into one, the last few weeks. To put her at ease and celebrate her departure we had a little English Brunch for her today. My lovely British friend lent me a British flag to set the tone.


One cannot have a proper English affair without tea


and scones with lemon curd and raspberry jam!



A Buffet table filled with traditional English fare 


as well as some other foods from countries she hopes to visit.


(You cannot have a brunch without quiche.)


We threw in a some little goodies wrapped in adorable Paris wrap from Cavallini Press


and a lot of LOVE and well wishes from family and it was a perfect send off! 

Sending prayers and wishes for safe travels across the pond Kelsey~
xoxo
Mom








Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Animals of Willowbrook Farm


This is one of my favorite shots of the cupola on our barn.
It is a barn that has housed over two centuries of animals, hay and machinery.
It no longer serves that purpose, but it is a beautiful reminder of the agriculture and the people that settled this area of our country. 
Willowbrook Farm's change from a working dairy farm came in the latter part of the 1900's when the land became more valuable then what farming it would bring in. Today, we have a large vegetable garden, many flower beds and a stable where we board horses. Thus, let me introduce you to the animals that you might see if you come to one of our Barn Sales at Willowbrook Farm this September, October, November or December.


Our longest standing pets came with us upon our move, Skittles and Snickers. Our two cats with grand personalities that are going on 16 years old now. One is an aloof female who scratches on each and every door between the hours of 3:30 and 5:30 every am to be let out. Her brother, the hunter, comes and goes when he pleases bringing us back his catch to show us with pride. Both are integral members of our family and are loved dearly!


photo taken by Brenda Carpenter of Cinnamon

Once here, we slowly acquired a menagerie of furry creatures...some pets and some pests...all of who add to life here at Willowbrook. Our first additions came when we acted on advice from the former owner of the farm. "To keep the grass cut on the island in the middle of the pond, which is accessed by a bridge, we have always kept goats on it." Thus, we got ourselves two baby goats...Cinnamon and Spice who proceeded to jump into the pond once on the island. Upon surfacing from their submersion, they looked like two Rastafarian braided baby goats. They have not jumped in since. Wether from embarrassment or the fact that they do not like water has not been established.


 Cinnamon and Spice have created much adventure on the farm over the six years that they have been here. The farmer we got them from did not alert us to the fact that two unfixed male goats with horns, are a force to be reckoned with. The origins of the terms "ram", "rammy" and any other variations became quite apparent to us, thus leading us to shield ourselves with metal garbage can lids when bringing them from the barn to the island in the winter and back again. Combined with the lack of warning from the farmer about their "rammy" personalities was the lack of warning from the past owners to be careful when a really bad storm or hurricane comes up the coast. This might lead to a bridge wash out on the island with a stranding of the goats on said island. This event led us to borrow a row boat from a neighbor in which to "row" the food over to the island. This little feat became quite difficult once winter hit, said bridge was not fixed, and the pond began to freeze over. "Okay", I said to my oldest son, "It is getting too cold and snowy for the goats to be over here anymore. We can walk them over on the hardened ice." HA! HA! Have you ever seen the movie Bambi? The scene when he hits the ice, spins around in circles, legs splayed apart and hits the snowbank??
 Onto Plan B, "Let's lay out sheets of plywood for them to walk on." Again, easier said than done.  Due to both the immersion in the pond when they were babies and the slip factor they just experienced, it took my son pulling with a leash and pulling their horns while I was pushing from behind with all my might to get them across. Go ahead...just picture it in your mind...the whole process took a good hour and a half.




Along with the goats came two bunnies, Sugar and Cocoa. Yes, there is a reoccurring theme here with the naming of the animals, food, especially sweets! We lost Cocoa after friends who were visiting inadvertently left the bunny cage open. We found Sugar due to the fact that she is...what color do you think? I will never forget running to one of the windows of the house to look out as our youngest was yelling, "It's the Easter bunny!" Unfortunately, Cocoa was what color do you think?
 Never found her. She has since been replaced by a Lion Maned bunny who resides in the aforementioned youngest son's room who to this day has not been named. 



The above mentioned pets did nothing to help our ever increasing flock of geese. In the Spring, when coming back from their winter vacation, they proceeded to wake us every am around 5, whilst partaking in their mating dances, calls, quakes etc. That combined with the sense that we were missing something.. the "Go TO" family pet...the dog, Willow, our fiercely energetic female Border Collie joined the forces and began to herd the heck out of those geese, as well as anything else that moved. I vividly remember saying to my husband,  "With the energy that flies around this house on a daily basis, why did we not get a calm little dog who would just lay on the couch and look at me?" Willow, we realized needed a buddy and when Willow was 3 we got Murphy, a puppy,  from a Border Collie Rescue Farm. They have become fast friends and fierce protectors of Willowbrook.


When I was 13 years old or so, the dream that almost every little girl has, of owning a pony came true for my sister and I. We learned that having a horse was hard work and the lessons of waking up at 6 am to muck stalls and carry buckets of water out to the barn where the pipes had frozen was not quite what we thought it would be. We loved it though and I have great memories that all stem from those experiences.

  When we moved here I thought that it would be incredible to create memories like those for my kids. The only difference is that now...a few years removed from "days of youth and little responsibility," getting up at 6 am to muck did not quite hold the same appeal when trying to get 5 kids on their assorted buses. Bribing the not so young... youngsters to grab a pitchfork and throw the offending muck in a wheelbarrow also did not quite hold the same appeal. They obviously did not share in my enthusiasm. That coupled with the fact that I rode exactly one time in a year led me to turn our little stable into a boarding experience. So, we rent out stalls and others get to ride and we get to admire the beauty of the horses!


Who could resist these two little faces?



photo by Brenda Carpenter of Mrs. Blick

As I said,  we have a furry menagarie of animals that reside here, some pets and some pests. On that note, I will introduce you to our 3 absolutely adorable kittens who arrived here quite by accident. Their mom was a stray who we really think was someone's beautiful Blue Egyptian, who must have stayed out past curfew and met the tomcat that hangs out in the front field.  Lo and behold, she needed to find a comfortable safe place to have her family. So she chose our upper barn, as we were getting ready for our Spring Barn Sale. I addressed this topic in a prior blog where I chronicled working around baby kittens, baby birds falling out of their nests and hungry mamma kittens. Let's just say it caused quite a bit of chaos! After taking care of the kittens once mamma up and left one day, we grew quite close to them and that is how we came to have 5 cats. Two of which have boys names even though they are girls. Seems like the first vet we took them was a little inaccurate in her assessment of them. Mr. Blick won't be too scarred for life if he really is a Mrs. will she?



All of our animals have distinct personalities, quite like our children.


Hmmm...which one does this cat resemble?


and this one??



We rounded out the flock of pets this past Spring with some chickens. Notice the lurker in the background? Our grand ideas of "free" ranging quickly turned into trying to prevent the chicks from becoming "free" birds flying to their resting place in the great chicken heaven in the sky. Thus we built Alcatraz #2 to keep all possible intruders out. (Alcatraz #1 surounds the veggie garden, which I am sad to say has had some break ins.)


photo by Brenda Carpenter of the chicks


It seems like almost every day my youngest, who is an animal lover, asks for another pet. I did not even go into his pet turtle and fish that have lived for six years now in his room. I mean, come on! How many of you have had a fish live for six years that your child wins from the school fair? Of course you say, "Yes honey, you can play that game," knowing full well that they will come home with a baggie ensconced fish and it will live all of 6 days...maybe! Six years??? Have any of you ever cleaned out a turtle tank? I am still trying to convince him that turtle would love to live in the pond with all of his other turtle friends. Every time I bring it up, I am met with the same wail, "But moooommmm, he will freeze when the pond freezes!" I will get another pet when you know what freezes over... or until I meet another pair of needy eyes that are not one of my own.



Thank you for bearing (I am definitely not getting one of those) with me and I truly hope that you can meet in person one of our furry friends in the future!

Until next time~
Meg









Saturday, August 10, 2013

Life is Beautiful...at the Beach


It has been over a month since my last Blog! Shame on me! July flew by with our Theme Thursday's (which were great fun), Emily's wedding, and then my frantic packing to get out of the house for our "no later than 10 am departure" the Friday right after our last Theme Thursday. We were heading to the beach in North Carolina for our Summer vacation and I had promised my hubby that I could do it. We pulled out of the drive at 10:15 and you probably could have knocked the hubby over with a feather. I NEVER can leave by the anticipated departure! There are always way too many things on the checklist to check off. Does anyone else feel that they need to get the 17 piles of paper precariously stacked on and around your desk sorted, filed or acted upon before you leave? Or that you have to leave the house ready for visitors, should they show up the second you arrive home? Or God forbid that you don't come back!  You can hear the voices in your subconscious, " How could she leave the house like this when she left? Look at that floor! The dishes in the sink!"




We pulled out of the driveway...almost on time and off we went. Okay, we didn't get that far because I always create a heap of mail from those 17 piles that of course need to be mailed on the way. We all know that they do not have post offices on vacation! Now we really are on the road, riding tandem because we can no longer fit the 5 kids, 2 dogs and luggage in one car. Opps! Small little lay over. A kind traveler was honking at us and pointing at our luggage rack as it looked like it was going to bounce off the top of the car. A little rearranging of the contents inside and now, off we go! 

 We timed the trip perfectly to avoid DC and Richmond around rush hour and we STILL hit a three hour back up on 95! A back up that caused us to move at a snails pace. Approaching hour number three of the traffic snarl, I put my head back on the seat rest to contemplate life as we were at a full stop.  The next thing I knew, I felt this thump on the car. Looks like the effects of staying up well into the night shuffling those 17 piles of paperwork caused me to take a little snooze. This crazy man came storming out of the car in which I just probably woke him up in as well, shaking his head at me and looking at me like I had seven heads. (Yes seven, you have not seen that look before.)
 Good thing it was my husband! 


It was all worth it as we drove over the bridge to the island in North Carolina. Love this view and the smell of the water that invades the car as we all put our windows down.  Okay, I cheated, if you did the math and we left at 10 am from PA, we would have gotten to NC (take in the 3 additional hours in the traffic) well after dark. Could not see much at that hour but I took this shot after returning from the grocery store the next morn to relive the moment. Looks much better in the day time doesn't it?



One thing we all know is that life IS different at the beach. The air seems clearer, the days ramble on, one into the other with no urgency except when you begin to realize that you are on the backside of the trip and you have little time left. Maybe it is the no work thing. You are on vacation after all. Maybe it is the cooking in a different environment, for most often we are still cooking and cleaning if you rent a house or a condo. Maybe even more so, if you go away with family or a large group of friends. One thing that struck me this time away at the beach was the sky.  


It seemed more beautiful and more vivid than at home. 



Forever changing from the soft hues of sunset...



to the beautiful blue and white of a beach day...



to the dark ominous signs of a storm rolling in.


Some evenings were absolutely breathtaking.


Making you thankful to have been part of such a beautiful day.



Life is good, life is beautiful, life is more revealing 
when we slow down a little bit to take it all in...at the beach.

To beautiful days wherever you may be~
Meg